{"id":11869,"date":"2016-09-20T05:00:49","date_gmt":"2016-09-20T10:00:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.crumbbums.com\/?p=11869"},"modified":"2016-09-19T11:31:46","modified_gmt":"2016-09-19T16:31:46","slug":"reading-57","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.crumbbums.com\/?p=11869","title":{"rendered":"Reading"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a title=\"DSC_0001\" href=\"http:\/\/farm9.staticflickr.com\/8248\/29569390042_af88982234_s.jpg\" rel=\"\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" title=\"DSC_0001\" src=\"http:\/\/farm9.staticflickr.com\/8248\/29569390042_a3c9a85f30_h.jpg\" alt=\"DSC_0001\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1143\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em><a href=\"http:\/\/jennyoffill.com\">Dept. of Speculation<\/a>, by Jenny Offill<\/em><!--more--><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">I recently read this engaging, beautiful, poetic book and was struck by how tender, sad, true, and real it was. It takes a few pages to &#8220;get&#8221; the style in which it is told; Offill offers fragmented statements, facts that seem to be random musings on the world, only to quickly emerge as parts of a whole. The words expressing the tenderness she feels towards her husband resonated with me deeply:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><em>I bought a warmer coat with many ingenious pockets. You put your hands in all of them.<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><em>Hard to believe I\u00a0used to think love was such a fragile business. Once when he was still young, I saw a bit of his scalp showing through his hair and I was afraid. But it was just a cowlick. Now sometimes it shows through for real, but I feel only tenderness.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">And of the overwhelming love and amusement she feels for her daughter:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><em>Once when she was just learning to talk, I ran my hand across her face, naming every part of it. Later, when I put her in the crib, she called me back. First, she asked for water, then for milk, then for kisses. &#8220;It hurts. Don&#8217;t go.&#8221; she said. &#8220;What does? What hurts, sweetie?&#8221; She paused. &#8220;My eyelashes.&#8221;\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">These paragraphs, sometimes sweet and tender, other times devastating, stand alone, separated by space and time, yet move us forward briskly as the story evolves.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">These fragments unveil the complicated and sweet story of a courtship, marriage, parenthood, and all of the in-between. These pieces somehow work together to produce a book that is more a work of art than something we should be allowed to hold within our hands. It will stay with me always.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dept. of Speculation, by Jenny Offill<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":11899,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_exactmetrics_skip_tracking":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[186],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11869","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-books"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.crumbbums.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11869","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.crumbbums.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.crumbbums.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.crumbbums.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.crumbbums.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=11869"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.crumbbums.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11869\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11896,"href":"https:\/\/www.crumbbums.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11869\/revisions\/11896"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.crumbbums.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/11899"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.crumbbums.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=11869"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.crumbbums.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=11869"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.crumbbums.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=11869"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}