Garden Progress: Complete!

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After what seemed like setback after setback, we finally finished expanding our vegetable garden! Andrew did a great job on the fence, especially considering our downward sloping yard. But perfection is not necessary, as long as the goal is achieved: a fence to keep out the critters (human and rodent and canine) and to prevent the inevitable trampling of small plants if a fence were not there.  DSC_0049DSC_0044DSC_0046And though I would love to have started everything from seeds this year, it just wasn’t do-able. If things go well, we will try for it next year.

Here’s what we planted:

Broccoli, broccoli raab, 3 different varieties of tomatoes, 2 varieties of kale, rainbow chard, rhubarb, beets, purple and orange carrots, garlic, beans, butternut and straight-neck squash, red bell peppers, rosemary, oregano, dill, basil, parsley, thyme, red cabbage, and cucumbers, as well as edible flowers throughout. Who knows if our seeds will all come up, but I certainly hope so! What a bounty we will have if they do! DSC_0039DSC_0037DSC_0069DSC_0002DSC_0001Milo and Oliver helped my finish the path leading up to the gate yesterday afternoon and had a lot of fun pouring the sand for the stones. It feels incredible to be finished with the hard part. Now… we wait (and weed and water and sing to)!

Garden Progress: Part III

DSC_0014DSC_0011The garden is coming along! I wish I could say we had plants in already, but thanks to a family of bunnies that lives somewhere in our backyard, I could not bring myself to take the chance of planting before the fence is up. We would like to feed the people, please!

But posts are in (Andrew cemented them in right before we received a deluge of rain for days and days last week). I completed the stone path (including putting a floor in the boys’ teepee for fun) yesterday and also tilled quite a bit more compost and chicken manure into the entire area merely minutes before it started to drizzle.

The soil is rich and ready for plants. The boys are itching to plant their beans for the teepee. Oliver has already planted several “helicopter plant” seeds around the base of the fort and even taken good care to cover and water them. Milo found a large (moving, wriggling!) chrysalis of some sort and we will be checking out an extensive insect guide from the library today to track down exactly what it is, as it doesn’t appear in our North America Wildlife Guide! What could it be? Emil enjoys digging in the mud with me and bringing me large clumps of it, extending his clod-filled hand and saying “Muuuuuh!”  It is a joy to be outdoors with them. DSC_0019And it’s going to be a delicious summer!

Garden Expansion… Take Two

DSC_0020Whoa. This old plan of ours to expand our vegetable garden and build our own fence has been a dream for a while, and a whole lot of work! We have been composting like maniacs and trying to create extra nutrient-rich soil to till into the area of the garden that used to be covered by grass only a week or so ago. You can see in the below photo the difference between the two (the slightly raised area in back is our old garden, which we added compost to for two years, the soil in the foreground is just clearly depleted): DSC_0012DSC_0006Enter this magical stuff. Our first batch of compost, rich in worm castings and teeny tiny pieces of eggshell. We were lucky enough to fill a huge wheelbarrow full, and we have one more pile which should be ready in a week or so. It made a huge difference after I tilled it into the new garden area! DSC_0009DSC_0013Emil “helped” by eating a cookie. DSC_0016DSC_0026In case you were wondering, that white stick in the center of everything is where we are lucky enough to have a sprinkler head, which should cover reach the whole garden in the middle of the hot summer- always mark where water lines are so you don’t bash into them with sharp tools!

This is not all we did, though it was a whole day’s work. Andrew has been measuring and staking and drawing up plans for the fence. He plans to concrete in the posts this week (if he can find the time between meetings and grading and that pesky thing we call a job), then add the wooden fence, build the gate, then add the chicken wire last. After that, I will add a stone pathway and plan the layout of where everything will go (ex: basil close to the tomatoes; rosemary near the carrots to deter carrot fly; avoiding the marigold this year after last year’s slug problem; interspersing veggies with strong-smelling herbs to deter those nasty buggies, etc.- find more information on companion planting here, or check out this book).

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The sunflowers Milo and Oliver planted are coming up!

Another fun thing we decided to do with the garden, since we have so much space now: DSC_0027

A bean-pole tee-pee! We will plant beans at the base of each pole, then the bean plants should climb the structure and make a really cool (edible) hideout for the boys. They already love playing in it.

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The whole thing has proven to be a really big job, but I am just in heaven dreaming about all the amazing veggies we are hoping for this season, and in all the years to come. I can’t wait for planting time to come! And what could be better than thoroughly enjoying good hard work?

P.S.- Please check out Julie’s blog! She just released the spring edition of Seasoned and it looks AMAZING! 

Garden Expansion… Take One

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Oh, look who decided to show up?

We are well into April and I am grateful to report that spring has finally come. It feels like we are playing catch-up in a major way, as we look back at our vegetable garden this time of year last year and can’t help but feel a pang of sadness that not only all of our planting was done, but our veggies had already done a whole lot of growing! We have nothing planted yet, and won’t for at least another week, as we are still in need of topsoil, more compost, and maybe even manure this year. Oh. And a fence. Yes, a fence would be good.

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After 10 days (with 3 days off thanks to my Kansas City trip) of hard work in the veggie garden: pulling, digging, hauling and dumping; and the flower gardens: weeding, raking, lifting, mulching, mulching, mulching!!! my arms and lower back ache. Even my abs, which haven’t seen action in a full year, are remembering their purpose. And something has happened to me. The missing piece in the balance that equals happiness falls back into place. I eat right, try to get a decent night’s sleep, keep my home tidy and kitchen tidier, see friends and have a pretty good social life. But all of those pieces float around above my foggy mind until… I remember. I kick my ass with hard physical labor, sometimes in the sunshine, sometimes in the near dark and pouring rain, and suddenly, I can exhale. Oh. This is what I’ve been needing. 

And all that is just the bonus before we get to enjoy it: we are expanding our garden to double the size it was last year and putting in a proper fence. We are garden people. We love the work it takes, the patience, the beauty, what it teaches our children about food and the earth and their ability to nurture things into ripeness, then reap the bounty of their hard work. Gardening is kind of a metaphor for life to us.

But right now is the hard part. Right now we have to add and add and add before we can take anything away. We have to deal with ugly and slow and messy before we can even chart out what we want to grow. We do this work with thoughts of years to come and mouths to feed and the joy that the garden will bring us. But you know what? That slow, messy process is healing me. And so…DSC_0030DSC_0049

Patience.

Composting

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So, I thought I would provide a few tips that we have learned over years of composting, and in return, I would love to hear some of your tips, if you compost!

  • Keep the dirt-to-scraps ratio high: I keep ours at about 1/3 dirt, 1/3 scraps from the kitchen, and 1/3 other organic matter (including dried leaves, grass clippings, and other discarded plants- excluding weeds with seeds, unless you want a pile of dandelions growing in your compost area). This keeps the odor of decay completely at bay, and discourages critters.
  • Do not add any sort of meat or animal feces! There are good kinds of worms (earthworms, for instance) and bad kinds (um… maggots… you don’t want those). If you decide to add cow or horse manure, make sure is is seasoned (dried out)
  • Good examples of kitchen scraps to add to your compost: eggshells (I crush ours first and they literally disappear within a day), veggie and fruit peelings (but not citrus), coffee grounds, even wilted flowers from your home (see mini daffodils above)
  • Be sure to keep your compost pile turned (every couple of days) and moist (if you are having a dry spell, I do recommend gently watering the pile, or the earthworms will go elsewhere)

Do you compost? I am always amazed by how easy it is. You don’t need a compost container at all, just a pile! And also, I am reminded every season of how much food waste goes into our trash when we don’t compost. Pretty amazing stuff!

Check out this post from a year ago on composting for extra tips on starting your own compost pile. 

Enjoying Spring

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These past few days I have felt myself turning a corner. It was getting to be a rough winter, to tell the truth. As the light changes and occasional warm days break the cycle of cold and rain and snow, our family is noticeably happier. It’s truly amazing what a few days in a row of fresh air does to my entire being.

And with garden preparations under way (we are expanding and adding a real fence), there is a lot of work to be done. The inside work of keeping this big old place clean is just going to be on the back burner for a while so I can just feel like myself again. And that means more days outside in the sunshine, tilling soil and pulling up clump after clump of grass by hand. Our spring compost pile is already hard at work, and the wheelbarrow full of yard debris. I couldn’t be happier…DSC_0150

February Garden: A Day in the Mud

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Winter around here has been strange weather-wise. We have had our share of snow and freezing cold days, but then we get a break from cold and the warm sun thaws everything out, if only for a day or two. On these days, the boys and I spend every minute of daylight outdoors. Every ounce of bad mood is erased within minutes (and I mean for me as much as for them!).

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We spent one such day out in our muddy garden, digging for worms and more productive work for me- I took down the shabby makeshift fence surrounding our vegetable garden with dreams to expand in the spring, then edged out a space in our yard to double the size of last year’s garden and build a proper fence. Removing the grass will be the next big job, especially if we plan to do that all by hand rather than buying or renting a tiller. Little by little, it will get done!

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Don’t let the grumpy face fool you- he was having a blast, but I caught him mid-story, feeling empathetic toward a poor earthworm he had accidentally sliced in half when trying to dig… poor little guy.

Dreams about spring are what I have right now… our new CSA farm share starting up, the opening of the spring farmer’s market, early planting of greens in our veggie garden, fence-building and composting, long walks and daffodils, snowdrops, and tulips blooming (if the neighborhood cats didn’t kill all of our bulbs with their nasty pee). It is around this time of the year that I often struggle. The end of February and beginning of March seem to signal I’ve had all I can take of winter. Let’s hope spring is right around the corner!

Have a happy weekend!

Weekend Shenanigans: Walk in the Woods

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***Thank you for all of your kind emails, comments, phone calls, etc. about Friday’s post. I was so back-and-forth about posting the story, but I’m glad I did. Sure, many people probably judged me, but I think sometimes the most interesting conversations and debates can come from putting your story out there, even when it is not a flattering one. All of your comments made me think, but more than anything, they made me feel supported as a parent. Thank you.***

After the drama of last week, Andrew and I indulged the fleeting feeling of wanting to pack up our kids and head out of town, away from crowds of people and into the peacefulness of the woods. On Saturday morning, we pretty much just picked up and left. We didn’t know exactly where we were going, but drove and drove southwest, knowing there were several state parks in that direction. We ended up about 30 miles away, and though I can’t remember the name of the park, as soon as we stepped outside and took a deep breath, we were better inside.

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It has been really cold here. You know, winter-cold. But Saturday turned out to be a pleasant 60 degrees- a welcome respite amidst more seasonal temperatures. One day. One day to get out and soak up sunshine through leafless branches. The ice from the ground had enough time to thaw before we got there to create some slippery, muddy paths, but no one cared. We took our time as the boys threw rocks, touched icicles, peeked down into cracks and under mossy boulders.

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Andrew and I noted how all of us were happier, but Milo came alive as soon as he was released into the wild! It was as if he blossomed before our very eyes, and he was joyous and moving and just… on fire. He was in his element. After 5 minutes of being out of the car, Oliver, who had been crying and whining just about the whole trip there, exclaimed, “I LOVE this place! This is just where I wanted to come!”

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When we sat down for a picnic lunch, it was so quiet that I almost cried. I had forgotten what it felt like to sit in silence, outside, with the people I love. I realized that I had been buzzing with emotions and anxiety all week, about the incident with CPS, about recovering from surgery and getting back into a normal routine, about weaning Emil and the emotional/hormonal toll that it always takes on me. I guess we have had a lot going on over the past two weeks! I’m ready for normal again.

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This day gave me a little peak into spring. It made me think of the sounds and smells of outside that I have been missing. It made me think of our hopes to expand our veggie garden and maybe plant another fruit tree. About long walks to playgrounds we love, keeping our back door open with little boys and a dog free to be in or out as they please, and meeting up with friends to enjoy nice weather. I know it is only January, but this day gave me a boost.

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And I can breathe again… until the next warm day.

November Garden

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There’s one thing in our garden that continues to thrive. And so, we continue to eat it.

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Swiss chard, you continue to give. The colors in this plant are amazing. If neon is in, then chard is the ultimate current food.

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*My favorite way to eat it*

(Late) September Gardening

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Milo’s face says it all. Basically, aw, man, how did we get into this mess?! We turned our backs on the vegetable garden in August and September, only lightly tending to the produce that was giving us what we wanted. But even the kale had wound and wrapped its way up through weeds and the raspberry bushes reaching for the sun in an attempt to survive. Our tomatoes stopped producing ripe fruit long ago, and our mint and basil had gone to seed a month ago.

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Yesterday turned out to be a beautiful autumn day here in St. Louis– warm in the sun, cool in the shade. Bright sunshine and perfect gardening weather. And with lots of storms on the horizon this week, the boys and I decided to tackle the inevitable job of garden clean-up. Right after I put Emil down for a nap, we got to work.

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With specific instructions on which plants to leave alone (the basil, chard, and chives might last a bit longer), I sent them in and let them pull, dig, explore, and destroy. And while I know they enjoyed planting the garden, I believe they found that un-planting the garden was more fun!

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Plus, they found all sorts of treasures, like snail shells and a live snail; earthworms; rolly-pollies; and a few toys given up for lost months ago.

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But the best part was just getting plain old dirty. Emil joined us and added to the fun, and we worked late into the afternoon as the shadows grew longer and the light faded and I realized, elbow-deep in mud, that I had not given dinner a good thought yet. Ah, life goes on without us realizing it sometimes, you know?

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Now it’s time for a few fall crops, don’t you think? We will definitely be planting some kale plants, perhaps some broccoli too. Have you had any luck with planting fall crops this late in the game? If we have another extremely mild winter like we did last year, we might find these crops more worthwhile than expected. Or… it will be a complete disaster. Happy fall to you!