Dress That Mama

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What seems like a lifetime ago, I remember being asked to do a guest post on a blog about dressing age-appropriately. I struggled with the post a bit because I am not sure my style of dress is age appropriate, to be honest. I think most of the time it is, but there are other times, especially in the hot summer months, when I wear really short shorts or rompers that may be better suited for a 20-something-year-old. But when I think about it, my style just is what it is.

In this case, it’s pushing the line with a cropped top that just shows a peek of skin. And to be honest, the picture below is more representative of the amount of midriff this shirt shows, not the picture above. I really do not feel comfortable with much of my midsection, scarred as it is from two surgeries (one minor, one pretty major) over the past two years. The scar from my appendectomy last March is so deep and jarring that I can actually see the deep divot through certain clothing — a down-turned mouth of a scar that seems to be permanent. But whatever. I survived the affliction that killed Houdini, so there’s that good news. The point is, the parts of my body that I feel most proud of are my strongest parts. The parts that show how hard I’ve been working over the past year — a continued love of aerial arts and bar method, the culmination of the realization that the most physically-active me is the happiest, most mentally-healthy version of myself.

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So no, it may not be “age appropriate,” this crop top thing. But I’m embracing it because it feels good to be healthy, to be active, to have faith and pride in my body and how hard it works for me. And because being a mama, like I’ve said before, does not erase my desire to be me.

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I hope you are having a lovely Christmas Eve, and enjoy your day tomorrow if you celebrate Christmas. I am looking forward to the moment our boys come downstairs tomorrow morning — to see their faces light up with joy is the best feeling in the world!

I’ll be taking a little blogging break to spend time with family and friends, unplug and do some serious reading by the fire. See you back here in a bit!

2014 Holiday Card

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Murray Christmas

As usual, we have made complete and utter fools of ourselves. At this point, I think people would be baffled if we sent out a normal family portrait. So, here it is, our tribute to one of our favorites: Bill Murray. And for clarification, from left: Peter Venkman (Ghostbusters); Walt Bishop (Moonrise Kingdom); Steve Zissou (The Life Aquatic with Steve Zissou); Herman J. Blume (Rushmore); and Carl Spackler (Caddyshack). 

Hope you and yours have a very Murray Christmas! See you next week!

P.s. — Previous year’s ridiculous holiday cards: 2013, 2012, 2011, 2010… and I wish we had posted 2009 (Silent Knight) and 2008 (Mustache Christmas)… have to dig up those old cards and upload them at some point! 

Homemade Ornaments

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I was so inspired by Phishybee‘s post on homemade ornaments with her kids that I decided to do them with my crafty little boys this past weekend. It was a lot of work, but also fun, and with nothing but time since they’re home from school, we spread the activity out over a couple of days.

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What We Used:

  • Rolling pin
  • Sculpey Oven Bake Clay
  • Cookie Cutters
  • Wax Paper (for protecting surfaces)
  • Acrylic Paint (we used these metallic colors)
  • Something to add texture (optional) — we carved our own patterns onto Blick Ready-Cut Plates, but that was a lot of extra work! Jenny recommends using what you have on hand: beads, pinecones, rubbing plates, etc.
  • Thin string or ribbon
  • Paintbrushes
  • A straw

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First, roll out plenty of wax paper on top of your work surface. This will keep the clay from sticking, and you can paint on it too once the ornaments have baked!

The next step proved most fun for the boys — breaking out the Sculpey and kneading it with their hands to warm it up enough for rolling out. It can start out kind of crumbly, but the more you work with it, the softer it becomes. The boys enjoyed making snowmen and kneading the clay with their knuckles.

Next, roll out the clay until it is about 1/4 of an inch thick. 
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Now the cookie cutters come out. Choose the designs you’d like and cut out the clay with the cutters.
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Before popping into the oven, press the top side of your ornament onto your pattern plate (or whatever you are using for texture). Then place face-up on a cookie sheet (also covered in wax paper), and keep cutting out shapes until you have the desired number of ornaments*.

*Important! Don’t forget to poke a hole through the top of each ornament with your straw before you pop them in the oven!

Bake at 275 for about 10 minutes (follow the directions on the package of Sculpey). Remove from oven and allow to cool. DSC_0104DSC_0105DSC_0113DSC_0117DSC_0122

Once completely cool, you can start painting! This, I admit, almost gave me a heart attack. I wish I could say I don’t care where the paint ends up and how free and loving and relaxed I am during this time, but that would be a lie. Ha! Let’s be honest; it’s acrylic paint and these three little guys can be a bit messy. We did our best to keep all the paint on the wax paper and the ornaments, wore aprons, and I reminded the boys to use only one paint brush for each paint to avoid a huge mess and totally mixed-up paints. I admit, I prefer watercolors when working with little ones and paint! DSC_0128DSC_0140

But I’m glad we did it! The metallic paints turned out so pretty, especially the bronze, which made the final results look like they were actually made out of bronze instead of clay. Shiny and fancy, Emil says! DSC_0005DSC_0006Once they are dry, paint the back. This paint dries super fast — wait ten minutes and it should be completely dry! Last, tie the little strings around and voila! We are attaching ours to the tops of gifts for family with little notes on the back. Thanks, Jenny, for the great idea and comprehensive tutorial!

(Holiday) Weekend Shenanigans

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This weekend was so slow and nice and easy. Andrew was out of town for a few days at the end of last week, so when he returned late Friday night all he wanted to do was relax and enjoy some down time — which was fine by me! Having the boys home for winter break is such a treat. They enjoyed a pajama half-day at school on Friday, and when I picked them up they were beaming from ear to ear (well, except for Milo, but he perked up pretty fast!). They all love their school, but we were all missing each other a little bit, so it will be nice to have all the time in the world together until January.

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Friday afternoon I took the boys over to my best buddy’s house so we could join forces without our husbands, letting the kids exchange gifts and eat pizza and play together while we hung out laughing and chatting in the kitchen. It was such a nice impromptu gathering, making me remember how grateful I am for her friendship and her presence in my life. Good friends are just priceless. Plus, Emil kept us laughing hard as he yelled at the top of his lungs into a toy phone about the injustices of the world; when we asked him who he was so angry at, he promptly answered: “The white man.” Ha! Oh, dear. He also, obviously, wore a Santa hat from Thursday night until Sunday night straight. And he did the dishes while wearing it:
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The boys surprised us by being mostly calm and studious, working from craft to craft all weekend long, producing paintings and drawings, Christmas ornaments, gifts, and elaborate bottle cap designs, then trading and playing with them. And the holidays are officially in full swing now that we’ve watched Christmas Vacation by the fire. I was impressed that Emil held the above position throughout the entire film. DSC_0083DSC_0141DSC_0014

Really feeling loved and grateful for our friends, who kept dropping by unexpectedly with presents and delicious food on Sunday! Thanks Elisha, Ingrid, and Kim! I love you ladies!

Hope this Monday finds you happy, healthy, and full of holiday cheer!

Music Monday

Sylvan Esso: Coffee — I was blown away when I first heard this song on NPR (of course) and have been hooked ever since.

My Brightest Diamond: Pressure — I just can’t even… this song is awesome. Plus, I think the video is pretty awesome too.

Sia: Chandelier — If you follow Jess over at House Inhabit, you’ve probably already seen this video. The little girl dancing in it is disturbing and incredibly talented. I also just really love the song. Thanks, Jess, for introducing me to Sia!